Are you planning to try Online Dating? If yes, good for you! Literally everyone does that these days! Days are gone when romantic friendships and marriages are only achieved through traditional methods and introductions. These days, if you have a mobile phone, you can go on the Internet and start chatting to a guy or a girl within of a few hours of joining a Dating Site.
But how easy is Online Dating? How Safe is it? And How on earth do you go about it so that you can achieve the result you want?
I’ll try and answer some of these questions below.
Online Dating Can Be Tough.
It is a fact that we women, even very beautiful women, like to be approached by a confident and interesting man. Are you surprised? It’s true…and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to us ladies of all ages, too in real life. That is also true for internet dating,
Once you have joined an online dating service, you will find that there a lot more men than women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women. Yes, it’s a woman’s world…still. It’s “traditional” for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.
Remember, show that you are confident and interesting, and not just a pretty face who is helpless and needs a man so badly…
Sorry, the fairy tale days are over.. You are not locked up in a castle and you cannot, therefore, be waiting endlessly for a Knight in Shining armour to come and rescue you! It’s important that your profile let’s people know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST beauty and clothes. Another thing about that all-important profile.
Please don’t start it with: “Are You my Mr Right?”. The answer is likely to be: “No, I don’t know you yet!”
You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the woman of your dreams”. The guy HOPES you are but he will be the judge of that…so don’t insult his intelligence. Remember, exude confidence and be naturally interesting, and you will find that man you have been looking for…or he will find you.
Won’t it be nice to have the guys contacting you, instead of you having to do chase them? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.
A Woman’s “Don’ts” of Online Dating.
There are some things that women should never do while engaged in an online relationship with a man. These things are certain to put a quick and final end to any further communications with him.
While chatting online or by email, do not write your life story. His eyes will glaze over and he will fall out of his chair. Keep it short and sweet until he asks for details…then provide them slowly and only answer the questions he asks. For instance: If he asks how many siblings you have, he is NOT asking for the details of your interaction with them. He really just wants to know how many you have. Say you have 2 (or whatever is true) and then ask how many he has.
For every question he asks you, you should ask one of him. Nothing turns a man off like a long-winded woman who just doesn’t know when to shut up or how to listen.
Lying is a “No, No”!
Never, ever, EVER lie. I really believe that lies will catch up with you sooner or later. Many women (and men) lie about their age, marital status, employment, height, weight and a host of other things in their online profiles. That is a huge mistake. If you find a man who you are really interested in, he will find out you lied and there goes any possibility of the relationship progressing. So, just be honest. There is someone out there who will like you…even come to love you…for exactly the person you are.
Don’t be too eager. It makes you look desperate and it really puts a man off. They are first and foremost conquerors and if getting the person of their desires to like them too is just too easy, they will quickly lose interest. I don’t mean play “hard-to-get”. I mean, don’t push for a face-to-face meeting. Don’t email them or IM them too frequently.
Play it safe and play it cool.
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Keep Dating until you find the right guy for you!
However, whatever you do: YOU MUST STAY SAFE!!
Here’s to your success!